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A big yes to this and to you, Kert. " how to personally make sense, for me and me only, of an experience so that having lived through it also means I’m the better for having done so." This is what helps to make us just a bit more wise and understanding about each of our journeys. We gain a new perspective with each new experience. That is a gift and a blessing in my world. It's one more reason I call my post "From Both Sides Now."

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Thank you Gary! And it’s also why I’m enjoying reading your thoughts from both sides! (Gotta love Joni Mitchell—great song, great song writer!).

https://substack.com/@garygruber?r=2cs3z&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=profile

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A pet is family and anyone who does not get that has never truly loved one. I have had both experiences, having them removed suddenly or by the difficult choice and both are not easy. Keep those scars and hold them tight, Sammy is teaching you if you are listening, connecting the dots. Oxoxo

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yep-a-doodle, connecting the dots!

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Well, I typed a long reply and it all disappeared. My thoughts are with you and your family. I know the loss of a beloved dog is heartbreaking. When I lost my German Shepherd, Zoey, it took a while but her lesson for me finally came. I love that Steve Jobs quote and had it on my old website.

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Thank you Tania—this unique pain is what unites all dog-lovers.

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Such a poignant reflection...wiggly butt silliness and all. 🙏🏻

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Love your Journey. I mean the Journey. I was listening to them like crazy on my tape cassette Walkman in 1983 in Honolulu and then they showed up for the final shows of their massive World Tour…they chose to end in Hawaii so they could vacation. They did a few shows. I went to the final one and they brought out a giant cake on stage to celebrate at the end. The girl I brought became my girlfriend that night. Good alchemy!

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You mean to tell me you saw Steve Perry with the band live??? OMG!!! He’s got THE greatest Rock voice of all time—and that’s not just my opinion!

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Yeah man, where do you think I get all my good ideas from, I was infected by Perry's voice, and the flow just never ends!

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Yes and I agree with you. It was awesome

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